Ever have that deep, nagging feeling that something just isn't right?
You bring it up, and suddenly, you're the problem. You're told you're "just being paranoid," "too insecure," or "reading way too much into it."
This is a classic tactic of manipulation, and it has a name: gaslighting. It’s a trick manipulators use to make you doubt your own intuition. They want you to believe that your gut feeling is wrong and that their version of reality is the right one.
Why? Because if they can make you doubt your own instincts, they can control you.
It's a form of deception designed to make you blame yourself. They'll say your valid concerns are just:
Self-guilt
Paranoia
Low self-esteem
Insecurities
Remember this simple truth: When someone shows you who they are, believe them. Your intuition is often the first thing to spot the red flags, long before your brain has all the evidence.
This Tactic Is Bigger Than Just One-on-One
This pattern of manipulation doesn't just happen in personal relationships. We see it play out on a much larger, societal scale.
Think about the term "woke."
At its core, being "woke" simply means being aware and conscious of social and systemic issues, like injustice or inequality. It's about seeing the world around you clearly.
However, just like in the personal example, this concept has been twisted. Some try to portray being "woke" as something negative, foolish, or extreme. This is the exact same tactic:
A person or group points out a real, observable problem in society.
Instead of addressing the problem, those who are uncomfortable or benefit from the problem attack the person who pointed it out.
They reframe awareness as a flaw, dismissing valid concerns as "woke nonsense" or "grievance politics."
The goal is the same: to dismiss the issue without ever having to acknowledge or fix it.
The Real Danger: Losing Yourself
Whether it comes from a single person or from broader society, this kind of manipulation is dangerous.
It's designed to make you doubt your own mind. It can cause you to question your beliefs, your values, and even your own identity.
Don't let it happen.
Your intuition is a powerful tool for survival and clarity. Your awareness of the world around you is a strength, not a weakness. It is vital to stay true to yourself and trust your instincts, no matter how hard someone tries to convince you that you're wrong.
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